Happy 40th Birthday, Brother
January 28th, 2011
I can’t stop crying today. I finally decided to stop fighting it. So I made a slideshow of my brother’s all-too-short life. I know there are more pictures out there that should be included but this is what I had available.
I will always love you, Jer. I will always miss you.
Music by Cora Rose, available at CD Baby
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My heart breaks for you, watching this. I think this is the most beautiful thing you can do to honor his life, the times, the love you shared.
When my mother died, I wondered — during my grief — what would happen with the energy and love I had for her. I think you understand this. The love we have for those we love the most never leaves us. With that love you share him us.
Thank you for that, Lani. You are a beautiful soul.
With love,
Jody
Just beautiful. He was very handsome. I have two brothers and would be devastated if something happened to them. I can’t imagine the pain you feel, and can only say I hope you’re able to find some solace in your memories. My thoughts are with you.
Thank you for sharing. What a lovely guy. So sad. Thinking of you.
Elaine
You can see the love behind the tribute…beautiful I think Jody nailed it when she asks what happens to the love and energy you have for someone when they are gone. What you did with yours is lovely.
I was very moved watching your video. Beautiful pictures here of your brother. I’m sorry for your loss.
What a lovely tribute. I hope that doing this for your brother brought you some comfort.
I don’t know if this helps but my husband’s older brother died shortly after he turned 40. I adored Brad. I guess I just want you to know you are not alone.
What a beautiful tribute to your brother. By telling his story and sharing your love for him, his life and memory lives on.
My heart goes out to you. He would be very proud of you!
Incredibly moving, not only the tribute itself which is so beautiful, but also being able to share that very special relationship between you both.
Love and thanks, Philippa xxx
Your photos show a life well-lived. I like him:) The grieving process never stops, and there are no words to make it better. I understand. The first few weeks after James died, I was in shock. Numb. I liked it better then. Now, 37 days later, I cry anywhere and everywhere, so it hurts me to know you’re crying as well.
I haven’t had any heat for 15 hours, but kept trying to stoke a fire in the fireplace, hang tablecloths, blankets, sheets, etc over windows to keep some of the cold out of my old house, but this afternoon, the dogs and I had to leave. I was determined to stay because James is there, all around me. I’m more comfortable there than anywhere else, but I realized he’s with me where ever I go. Your brother is with you as well.
XOXOXO,
Brenda
This is a beautiful tribute and insight into your life and love, yet another aspect of you to touch our hearts so deeply. I am so sorry for your grief and loss.
Love,
Laurie